11 November 2008

Love is for real men.

"My beloved is dazzling and ruddy, Outstanding among ten thousand- Songs of Sol. 5:10
Love is the life of a marriage. The parties involved must give it full attention and must never on any account be negligent.
Men are everywhere, but real men who are good husband materials are scarce. Love differentiates mere men from real men, real men are custodians of love, and they demonstrate love to their wife and children, they do not neglect them in favour of other things or people. Only real men are worthy to get married or be referred to as husbands or fathers. It takes a real man to shun all vices in other to remain true and faithful to his wife.
A husband is expected to love his wife just as Christ loved the church and gave himself for it. If a man loves his wife, he does not do anything without revealing it to her, whether she will approve of it or not because they have been made one by the arithmetic of marriage, 1+1=1.
One major way a man can demonstrate his love towards his children is by loving their mother unconditionally and unequivocally. When a man really loves his wife, he confides in her everything he does and never makes room for any skeleton to be in his cupboard. One of such skeleton is extra marital affair.
Here are a few ways a real man can physically show love to his wife.
A man should always treat his wife like an endangered species. Always remembering that she is special and irreplaceable, one of a kind.
A man should love his wife through thick and thin, because she needs his support and strength.
His wife’s wishes and needs should take priority over all else.
A man should tell his wife where he can be reached when away, this is very important to a woman.
Make it a point of duty to tell others of your wife’s good points, the rest his private and should be kept in the cooler (i.e. private.)
Take time away from work to spend with your wife alone. You know, get to know each other all over.
Do not compare your wife to any other, an old girlfriend, your mother or sister, because is she not any of them, she is unique.
Treat your wife as if you were still dating.
Let her know everyday, how thankful you are for her because women love being complimented.
Always look at her through the eyes of love.
Surprise her with gifts, things you know she will adore.
Pray with her, and for her.
Most importantly, have an affair with her!


2 Reaction(s).:

Michele said...

I love it! What a great little post. I need to show it to my husband, and tell him that he fits the bill...He's a great guy!!!

Kelly @ Wisdom Begun said...

This was a great post, thank you for writing it. I need to use some of these ideas to love my husband.